Run away, as quickly as you can, is my advice to you. Anthing short of that will be certain heartache, headache, and drama.
Mrs. Jones, as usual, nailed it right on!
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24Some advice please?
by Wonka ina friend of mine i'm in lust with, has been trying to convert / recruit me.
she's been very pleasant with me and very patient with me.
she hasn't been very pushy which i appreciate.. she's even said that if at anytime i'm getting smothered or feel this religion isn't my thing, to say so and she will stop asking about it.
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Did You Give Much $$$ To The Kingdom Hall And/Or Watchtower Society?
by minimus ini typically gave $$$ to the local kh and seldom gave donations to the society.. i always am amazed how some church going people have very little materially, yet make sure the church and the pastors are well taken care of..
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I am extremely proud to report that I have never donated any money to the Jehovah's Witnesses, ever.
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My husband deleted me as a friend on FaceBook
by cognac inafter this whole thing with him talking to this other girl on fb, now he deleted me as a friend.
i have his username and password.
it's like, he doesn't want this marriage to work at all.. i don't even have it in me to argue with him.
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<<<< Something else, don't let people tell you to get rid of your husband. It's easy for them to say, right? But this is your husband and he is the father of your kids.>>>.
Something else, don't confuse advice to consult with a lawyer with advice to get divorced. Consulting a lawyer in a situation like this is wise, and having that consultation does not mean you have to actually get a divorce. It does mean that you will be informed as to the realities of your legal situation, instead of ignorant of them.
If your husband will agree to attend marital counseling sessions, this could also be helpful. The interests of your entire family, especially the children, would best be served by resolving the issues in your relationship, if possible, while keeping the family together. A marital counselor might be the repair kit that your relationship needs. If he is hesitant about going to counseling, and he likely will be, you might be able to defuse some of that by agreeing to allow him to select the counselor, subject to your criteria regarding professional background, etc.
Good luck!
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My husband deleted me as a friend on FaceBook
by cognac inafter this whole thing with him talking to this other girl on fb, now he deleted me as a friend.
i have his username and password.
it's like, he doesn't want this marriage to work at all.. i don't even have it in me to argue with him.
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<<<< I really don't want a divorce. I'm just trying to work things out in my mind. >>>>
Nobody wants a divorce. But it might be inevitable. In any case, you would be very wise to consult a lawyer, immediately.
Seeing a lawyer doesn't mean you have to get divorced. But it will give you some idea of how the situation would likely play out, in the event that divorce becomes necessary. You can also get some tips on how to protect yourself in the event divorce becomes unavoidable.
He might already be planning a divorce, and consulting with counsel. He's already made it clear that you should not trust him.
Good luck, Cognac. You deserve better!
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My husband deleted me as a friend on FaceBook
by cognac inafter this whole thing with him talking to this other girl on fb, now he deleted me as a friend.
i have his username and password.
it's like, he doesn't want this marriage to work at all.. i don't even have it in me to argue with him.
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My advice is to consult with a lawyer. The sooner you plan for divorce, the better off you'll be.
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What evidence is there for Jesus (NOT USING THE BIBLE)?
by punkofnice ini have often wondered if there is any actual archealogical evidence that jesus existed other than the claims of the bible.. i don't want to go down the route of 'you can't prove he didn't exist' as this is tiresome.
or 'well pontius pilate existed we found a stone with his name on so it follows jesus existed!
' that won't cut it.
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<<<<What, your butt not "tight" enough to look good in a pair of those? >>>>
I choose to wear modern attire; given your expression of a preference for the retro look, I take it you're sporting a pair of granny panties?
<<,Well, I would recommend butt squeezes for that, but given your stated issues with... mmmmm... "control" (well, lack thereof) in that "area"... maybe not. Wouldn't want to make it worse for anyone who has to live/sleep/commute/work wit'cha.
"Butt squeezes?" I take my fitness pretty seriously, so I've never had the inclination to watch Richard Simmons. Is his workout giving you results?
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What's The Main Reason You Do Not Believe That The Witnesses Are The Best Religion?
by minimus insome people leave because they are fed up with the elders.
others have personality issues.
some have doctrinal and prophecy reasons.
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Since to me, all religions are pure nonsense, I don't consider any religion to be the "best religion."
However, it has been documented that the incidence of mental illness in the Watchtower organization is 4 times that of the general public. It would seem that a religion that boasts pervasive mental illness among its members cannot possibly be considered the "best religion" . . .
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What evidence is there for Jesus (NOT USING THE BIBLE)?
by punkofnice ini have often wondered if there is any actual archealogical evidence that jesus existed other than the claims of the bible.. i don't want to go down the route of 'you can't prove he didn't exist' as this is tiresome.
or 'well pontius pilate existed we found a stone with his name on so it follows jesus existed!
' that won't cut it.
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Shelby,
To refresh your memory, it was you who, when we first met here, threatened a sort of wardrobe malfunction, and I recall rather clearly that at the time, I advised you of the potential, gaseous consequences to such a malfunction.
Peace, Love, and Freedom of Flatulence!
From
144001
A true slave of Taco Bell
P.S. If you don't like my butt huggers, you are free to buy me suitable alternatives. I like the 2Xist brand . . . but no tightey whiteys, please!
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Wrong verbiage; the question really is, "how young are you?"
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What evidence is there for Jesus (NOT USING THE BIBLE)?
by punkofnice ini have often wondered if there is any actual archealogical evidence that jesus existed other than the claims of the bible.. i don't want to go down the route of 'you can't prove he didn't exist' as this is tiresome.
or 'well pontius pilate existed we found a stone with his name on so it follows jesus existed!
' that won't cut it.
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None that I know of.
From 144001, a slave of Taco Bell
No wardrobe malfunctions, Shelby . . . I'm warning you, I already ate 3 bean burritos and an order of pintos and cheese! Do I even need to mention the fire sauce?