Designer Stubble: I completely appreciate your position and agree totally. At some point in recovery a person has to say, "Enough is enough, time to move on. How much longer do I need to rehash these issues?." At some point (This point is different for everyone) it goes from being recovery to being a constant reminder of a painful period and a crutch.
To be completely honest, I have been out more or less for over two decades now. I did it on my own with no support group. I left those things behind me long ago. So, I am not quite sure why I have recently found a desire to visit these sites. More than likely I will fade from these to, and again move on with my life. Rehashing the past continuously is not healthy.
Thank everyone for their efforts at JWR.