General WT priorities regarding shepherding IMO:
1. Men who do stuff for them for free.(a)
2. Anyone who looks like they are leaving and might do stuff for free or give stuff or money if they stay in.(a)
(a) Women are second class citizens/property of men, and we have too many of them anyway. If their husband is faded, the wife will most likely fade, so don't waste your time.
Most of our shepherding falls under #1. Will you do this for us? Will you do that for us? I mean that they combine, or count begging my husband to do things as shepherding.