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Flamegrilled, could you give me some examples of how JWs show agape love? That would help me to think of examples that would be acceptable to you.
I have been to 4 churches less than a dozen times total, so my experience is limited.
A local church has paid for my neighbor's gas bill in October and her phone bill in December. They also deliver boxes of food to her from the food pantry and there have been people from that church (who are not related to her) who have come to help her clean her house. We had a local church that we visited drop by on Christmas day with a basket of food for us. All that was needed for a Christmas dinner. It was so nice of them, but we didn't need it, so I went directly to said neighbor's house with it. At another church there are volunteers in the church nursery that watched my son for me so that I could see the Christmas pageant. She was disappointed that she had to miss it in order to volunteer that day, but it was a sacrafice that she had decided to make. I have a friend in another state that volunteers in a "closet on wheels" mission to provide clothing for others.
I know of three Christians that go from door to door in their ministry and two others that volunteer at state fairs in order to preach the gospel, and several others that have ministries on youtube and in blogs. I know a missionary who volunteered to fly out here the week that I DA'd if I wanted him to be here to support the family, and he has already volunteered to fly here at some later date should we need him.
I have Nigerian friends on facebook because they saw my posts in a Bible page and were moved to friend me as a result. I also have Eastern Orthodox, Catholic, Baptist and Non-denominational friends on Facebook for similar reasons. They saw me post on another forum and wanted to offer their support, even after I said that I have no interest in joining their denominations/churches. They check up on me often, even calling and offering help with my parenting questions.