Let's get down to the Nitty Gritty here, nitty-gritty.
The Nitty Gritty of it is that you would excuse any behavior by the Watchtower.
If you can excuse God killing innocent children in the flood, killing innocent first born children in Egypt, ordering the killing of innocent infants and children in the promised land, making David and Bath-Sheba's innocent son suffer for seven days before killing him, then you will excuse any policy or anything done by the Society that harms or potentially harms children.
So excuse me if I don't take your point of view as relevant, much less moral.