To answer the OP, I did.
I came home one day after work, while I was still learning TTATT, and told my wife that I had something really important to talk to her about.
You can see that thread here.
And subsequent threads here:
My wife has now completely awoken and we have moved away from where we were and are now faded. We don't go to meetings.
Currently, our families don't know. But I guess that eventually they do, but we're both okay with the eventual consequences.