sorry buzzybee, i have only been here since 2000, unlike you, since 2006
i guess you are right,,,i wanted support for my actions,,,hhmm
only wanted empathy, understanding for getting out of a very abusive relationship, finally
i guess at 53, if i am not already all growed up, as you so stated below,,then i aint never going to be
""""Yeah, what you're really saying is that you wish we all supported your actions. Sorry, that is the downside of sharing - people don't always agree with your point of view. Grow up and get used to it. You can get your frustrations out here (or anywhere), but you can't always get agreement................get over yourself.................."""
wendy