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  Lost my best friend (man's best friend)

  by Coffee House Girl in

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  just wanted to write a tribute to my best friend whom i lost last week, it was one of the most painful experiences i have ever been through.

  i have no children, my puppy was my child.

  i got him from a golden retriever rescue organization when he was 2. he was recovering from a car accident, still a bit skiddish, but he chose me to take him home (the foster mom said that he never responded to anyone like he did me).. he was always happy to see me, greet me with a toy in his mouth, he never judged me, never cared whether i was "bad association", he was always there when i needed to smile and remembe that i was not alone in the world.

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  3rdgen

  CHG, I was unable to reply when i first read your post because i was too choked up. So terribly sorry you had to say goodby to your dear furbaby. When my son died I had a 4month old puppy. He totally saved my life. I couldn't succumb to my grief because I HAD to take care of him. He was so goofy and innocent he made me laugh every day-even when i didn't feel like it. Now he's getting older and your post reminded me that before too long I too, will have to say goodby to my friend, protector, and pseudo-son.

  I hope, in time, you can find another pet that completes your loving family.
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  Pre 1975 if you said the system would still be here in 2012...........

  by karter in

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  would they have d.fed as an apostate???

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  I'm not sure whether or not a person would have been disfellowshipped in the late 60's and 70's for saying Armageddon wouldn't arrive in that century. But I do know for SURE that he would have been hauled in the back room and told never to say such a thing again. And if he did, he positively would have been DFed as at that point he would be considered rebellious and insubordinate. Apostacy would not have to enter the picture at this point. Once the Elders tell a person to stop doing something, ANYTHING (right or wrong) he must stop or he positively WILL be DFed.

  To illistrate the furvor leading up to 1975: My husband built a home for us in '73. He was told he was not exemplary and could not be appointed a servant because he was not living like the "End" was imminant. In the late 70's he built another house for us that was bigger and better than the 1st. This time however, it was ok since 75 had come and gone, he was appointed an Elder. The "Holy Spirit must have changed it's mind. LOL
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  Spanish congregations District Assembly / rides for the kids.

  by jam in

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  any truth to this.

  the spanish brothers in texas (da).

  provided an amusement park for the young on the.

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  3rdgen

  If that is true it emphasisizes the cultural differcences between the english speaking and the Spanish JWs. When I was JW kid I was lucky to get food and water-and NEVER during the sessions.
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  Worst Day of my life

  by BU2B in

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  well this afternoon as i sit here i am calm but my heart is literally aching.

  i am sitting here with my young daughter on my shoulder.

  i guess you could say i spilled the beans to my wife this afternoon.

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  3rdgen

  I think it is possible to apologise to her without saying you are wrong. Balamsass and I do it all the time. One or the other of us says, "I'm sorry we had words" or "I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings" or "I should have been more tactful in the way I expressed myself" or "Can we agree to disagree?"

  These kinds of statements convey you are trying to make peace. If the other person is loving, he/she will accept the gesture and move on.
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  guilty mate (need Blondie)

  by scary21 in

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  jw always speak of the innocent mate is free to remarry.

  how about this...jw man divorces his jw wife after a very very short period of time... (.wife is bummed ).. before his marriage to her.he had never been married and does not plan.

  to ever marry again .

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  3rdgen

  BTW, I forgot to ask, where I can find the article or letter to the BOE that changed the policy of 10 years ago. I'd love to see their new reasoning.(if you can call it that. lol)
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  guilty mate (need Blondie)

  by scary21 in

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  jw always speak of the innocent mate is free to remarry.

  how about this...jw man divorces his jw wife after a very very short period of time... (.wife is bummed ).. before his marriage to her.he had never been married and does not plan.

  to ever marry again .

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  Cofty, You very well may be right if there has been NUUU light on the subject since I did my thorough research about 10 yrs ago.
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  Your very own Philly Kingdom Hall for only 500K !

  by Balaamsass in

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  neighborhood.

  wedaug 82012home of jehovahs witness congregation could be your new homepost on end post on .entry-meta lew lew change here end lew change here last week, a reader tipped us off that this kingdom hall of jehovahs witnesses at 1235-37 federal st. was available for sale.. the building.

  as opposed to numerous other religious buildings that have gone on the market recently, this building doesnt have any particularly compelling architectural or historical features that make it crucial that its appearance is maintained.

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  3rdgen

  Chances are that Plilly cong bought that building many years/decades ago for peanuts. At a cool half million that gives the WTBT$ a fab chunk of tax-free dollar$$$
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  guilty mate (need Blondie)

  by scary21 in

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  jw always speak of the innocent mate is free to remarry.

  how about this...jw man divorces his jw wife after a very very short period of time... (.wife is bummed ).. before his marriage to her.he had never been married and does not plan.

  to ever marry again .

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  3rdgen

  If indeed the man was the moving party (Plaintiff) in the divorce she is probably free to remarry in WT land. However, If SHE filed first she is screwed.

  The WT$ made this rule so that people who wanted a divorce for reasons other than adultry could not commit fornication or adultry(before or after the divorce) to FREE THEMSELVES to remarry. There was a WT article about this that called this plan to get out of marriage as "Dealing Treacherously with your mate."

  I'm sorry I don't have a link for you.
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  One smart householder!

  by man oh man in

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  you might enjoy this lady's experience with a jw visit.

  she is too nice but also more smart!.

  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9vgug6sbppy.

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  3rdgen

  Refriedtruth, You layed out the belief perfectly. I'm humiliated that I actually believed that sh!t!
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  Has anyone heard of "Secret Disfellowshipping" by Jehovah's Witnesses? Menlo Park Ca. Congregation. Update.

  by Balaamsass in

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  no doubt everyone has been following the juan viejo postings regarding the watchtower kingdom hall "grab" on jwn for the last couple of years.

  called the mrs and me to say "wow- you have to google this" we did...came here to jwn ...became members..and the rest is history.. in the last nine months i have been calling and emailing contacts in the silicon valley for verification on the societies theft and forced sale of the menlo park kingdom hall (near the new facebook heaquarters) because the story seemed...a little far fetched.

  every reliable contact i made has confirmed what juan reported.

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  3rdgen

  Quendi, You have a reply.