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  JW Mom killed in house

  by Wordly Andre in

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  http://www.pe.com/localnews/murrieta/stories/pe_news_local_s_sdead29.4016de2.html

  murrieta - a 40-year-old mother of two was killed in her murrieta home monday morning, authorities said.

  coroner's officials identified the woman as isabelle jarka.

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  3rdgen

  Lois L, You have a pm
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  I Could Really Use A Friend

  by Hargitay in

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  have been in the austin area for a little over a week in the midst of trying to start over.

  i was df'd recently after being in the truth my entire life.

  everyone has abandoned me, and i am lost out here.

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  Ok, I just read your last post. I'm so sorry you are in such dire straights. Now that you have left you will have to save up to get home. Find a soup kitchen NOW. Find a homeless shelter. There are also minesters and churches who actually help the needy on the spot. Salvation Army will point you to a meal. You can't think if you are hungry. Please call.
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  I Could Really Use A Friend

  by Hargitay in

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  have been in the austin area for a little over a week in the midst of trying to start over.

  i was df'd recently after being in the truth my entire life.

  everyone has abandoned me, and i am lost out here.

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  Hargitay, so sorry you were ambushed and betrayed by your own wife and family. Its bad enough to go through being wrongfully DFed let alone your situation. Deperssion and helplessness is understandable but please don't let the sadness cloud your thinking. 1st: You DO have value and rights. DFing even for apostacy is not necessarily "spiritual endangerment" which is grounds for separation in dubland. Why? Because IF you do not try to influence her to your thinking or interfere with any of her "Theotractic activites" you are not a danger to her "spirituality".

  2ond: You are indeed the head of the house in dubland. Go home. She has no authority to order you to leave. Don't enable this bad behavior. Your children have a right to easy access to their father. Call the police if you need an escourt back into your house.

  3rd: After you return, if she chooses to leave, don't enable her. Insist on your financial and parental rights and go to the local courthouse. They have facilitators who help people who can't afford an attorney to file for separation. Do NOT file first if it eventually comes to divorce. If SHE chooses to file, she will NOT be allowed to remarry in Dubbie land unless you admit to porneia. DON"T EVER ADMIT TO IT!!! She will never be free to remarry (even if she does the deed) because you will say you forgive her. She will be single and alone or remarried and disfellowshipped.

  4: VERY IMPORTANT: Most US attorneys will consult with a prospective client for approx. 20 min free of charge to determine if they want to take the case. Find a recommended divorce attorney and find out your rights. Some might accept a contingency if they know there are assets.

  Did you have a job where you were living before? Don't quit it if you did. Like others have said, you did nothing wrong don't live like you did. Set the example for your kids that you are kind, loving, and STAYING in their lives and YOU did nothing wrong. Do not allow yourself to be bullied this way. We are pulling for you. We care. We, or those we know have been through what you are going through. PM me if you like. Take care, You can get through this.
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  Mature Dating UK - Surely this isn't for real.

  by cofty in

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  this advert appears every time i click on the active topics link.

  please make it stop.... .

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  3rdgen

  I'll bet the men are signing up right and left!
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  "Keep close in mind Jehovah's day"

  by Splash in

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  this is the sunday public address title from the 2012/2013 circuit assembly program.. .

  i also found it here:.

  -- w54 9/15 p.556 make wise use of the remaining time.

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  3rdgen

  I know I kept "in fear and expectation of it" FAR TOO LONG!
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  Watchtower honors Jehovah's Witness Elders responsible for Candice Conti and Menlo Park Fiascos

  by Balaamsass in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  this weekend was the convention for the southern san francisco bay area.

  it was held at the santa clara convention center in the silicon valley http://www.santaclara.org/conventioncenter/ which is an improvement over the old s.f.

  cow palace which is still used..just not as much.

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  Jaymes, Exellent blog. You said the facts in a nutshell.
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  When you were a dub, did you ever avoid visiting or joining some certain congregations because you do not like some people there?

  by Iamallcool in

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  any experiences?.

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  My first husband and I moved to a town that only had one Eng. congregation. It soon became appearent that we were NOT welcome and the Elders were particulary mean and self-rightous. We hated the atmosphere there but were stuck for three years until we were able to move out of the area. Even when I was still in I wouldn't visit that hall if I had a gun to my head!
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  What are you up to this Labor Day Weekend?

  by Magwitch in

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  i am spending time with family, but the real thrill for me this weekend is that college football starts..

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  3rdgen

  Appearently, everyone one this board had a more interesting weekend than I.
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  Watchtower honors Jehovah's Witness Elders responsible for Candice Conti and Menlo Park Fiascos

  by Balaamsass in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  this weekend was the convention for the southern san francisco bay area.

  it was held at the santa clara convention center in the silicon valley http://www.santaclara.org/conventioncenter/ which is an improvement over the old s.f.

  cow palace which is still used..just not as much.

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  ronwashington, Facepalm!
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  Those Wonderful Kingdom Songs

  by Quendi in

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  3rdgen

  I might be able to stomache the meetings if they had songs like the Doobie Bros "Jesus is Just Alright with Me".