Posts by obiwan
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54Other peoples happiness.......
by obiwan init's so sad sometimes to see people question anothers happiness.
there have been posts made about good things happening to our fellow posters here.
posters questioning good fortune and happiness.
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Other peoples happiness.......
by obiwan init's so sad sometimes to see people question anothers happiness.
there have been posts made about good things happening to our fellow posters here.
posters questioning good fortune and happiness.
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obiwan
Well, thanks to ALL who replied to this thread. I think it's importatnt to remember how hard happiness is to get and attain.
Sloan knows ALL to well my happiness . Thanks for your support Sloan, and you comments.
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Other peoples happiness.......
by obiwan init's so sad sometimes to see people question anothers happiness.
there have been posts made about good things happening to our fellow posters here.
posters questioning good fortune and happiness.
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obiwan
Well Aztec, I hate to burst your bubble, but I have some very good news that I am not about to post on this forum. I know in posting this information, it would only lead to me being pissed off at others. Some people can't look past another persons past to see things for what they are.
Like I said, some people are happier to see others miserable....... just as they are.
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Other peoples happiness.......
by obiwan init's so sad sometimes to see people question anothers happiness.
there have been posts made about good things happening to our fellow posters here.
posters questioning good fortune and happiness.
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obiwan
True little witch. As a young child I was taught, that if I didn't have anything nice to say, don't say anything. This does not mean that I shouldn't point out any harm to someone that is there.
I guess what it all comes down to with the critism, is that a person giving it, should have at least experience in that area before advising someone on that subject. No one wants to have a persons finger waving in there face and expecting to heed advice when the person giving it hasn't any experience on the subject.
I had said "some posters". There are a great many posters here who have many life experiences and as such, thier advice carries some wieght. But there are others who, for one reason or another, can't stand to see happiness. They would rather make themselves feel better by giving advice where it is not needed or wanted.
I don't know, if I see a poster that wants advice, that's one thing. But somebody giving good news to share with others, should not have to explain there actions or defend thier decisions.
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Other peoples happiness.......
by obiwan init's so sad sometimes to see people question anothers happiness.
there have been posts made about good things happening to our fellow posters here.
posters questioning good fortune and happiness.
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obiwan
When there is more than one person basically saying the same thing on the same thread, it turns from constructive, to annoying
1) Are they saying it the same way?
2) Do they have the same intentions?
~Aztec
Does it matter??? Negativity is negativity, in any form.
If someone gives critisism to another, when they have no experience in that area, wouldn't that be annoying?
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Other peoples happiness.......
by obiwan init's so sad sometimes to see people question anothers happiness.
there have been posts made about good things happening to our fellow posters here.
posters questioning good fortune and happiness.
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obiwan
Hey Obi, while I agree with the gist of what you said there is a differance between criticism and constructive criticism. Criticism is merely meant to tear down while constructive criticism is meant to upbuild. The motives behind each are entirely differant. I, myself, can usually tell the differance.
~Aztec
When there is more than one person basically saying the same thing on the same thread, it turns from constructive, to annoying.
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Maui Was Wonderful
by Stacy Smith ini want to go back right now.
what a beautiful place and such friendly people.
i enjoyed the relaxed pace there, a lot, maybe too much.. but i'm back to my reality and classes start on monday.
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obiwan
Thanks obi, I think I'm grumpy this afternoon.Why do I bother with this crap? All I wanted to do was post some happy news. Instead I get this stuff. Well some of you have screwed up your lives and fully know exactly what you did to do that. Congratulations. Some of you have screwed it up repeatedly. Congratulations on that. It still doesn't make you an expert.
AHMEN!!!
Congrats to you and yours !!!!
Nah, just defending your turf...completely understandable.
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Maui Was Wonderful
by Stacy Smith ini want to go back right now.
what a beautiful place and such friendly people.
i enjoyed the relaxed pace there, a lot, maybe too much.. but i'm back to my reality and classes start on monday.
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obiwan
Why do I bother with this crap? All I wanted to do was post some happy news. Instead I get this stuff. Well some of you have screwed up your lives and fully know exactly what you did to do that. Congratulations. Some of you have screwed it up repeatedly. Congratulations on that. It still doesn't make you an expert.
AHMEN!!!
Congrats to you and yours !!!!
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HELP!!!!!!!!!!!
by ChimChim in.
im far away from home, and i cant go home until 2morrow... i'm sad.... btw if i dont check this post in awhile its becuz i am not (of course) at home and i cant check it as much becuz the poeple here wil be like why are you on that site so yeah.. but i wanna go hoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooome.
c.c
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obiwan
Oh to be a fly on the wall when daughter gets home..... wooo weee!!
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HELP!!!!!!!!!!!
by ChimChim in.
im far away from home, and i cant go home until 2morrow... i'm sad.... btw if i dont check this post in awhile its becuz i am not (of course) at home and i cant check it as much becuz the poeple here wil be like why are you on that site so yeah.. but i wanna go hoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooome.
c.c
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obiwan
Hi chim!! Tell your mum I said "hi".
P.S. Take care of yourself sweety