Seems to be a lot of people making
assumptions about your boyfriend and his mum.
Although some are giving you good
things to look out for, there are a lot of variables that could lead
to some bad advice.
Personally I feel that if you are
asking a bunch of strangers whether you should get out of a
relationship, then you've probably already answered your own
question.
However I'd like to address to point
about him being duplicitous. A lot of people on this site have had to
be duplicitous at one time or another in order to manage their
situation in relation to the organization of JWs. I think it would be
hypocritical of most to judge your BF on that basis.
And as far as his mother, I have the
most dyed-in-the-wool JW mother you could ever expect. She would shun
me if the org told her to. However she was perfectly prepared to see
me hitched with someone who was not a JW if that's what I decided to
do at one stage in my life. She might have hoped for her to become a
JW, but her support in that particular case was not conditional.
So it's really hard for someone else to
make these judgments for you, although many will no doubt throw their
hats into the ring.
If you decide to stay with him it will
be complicated. That much I can certainly agree with. But then many
relationships are complicated, and people work them out. It all
depends what you want.