Many sister in the JW want to find a suitable JW mate, but it's hard, there are many many single sisters in ratio to jw men... i am saying this because I found myself single again at 28 yrs old, I got married to a JW at 23.....I mistakenly thought that I can only have a happy marriage if married to a JW, NOT TRUE, many couples married at abt the same time I did at early 20s, multiple problems because as you stated the dating system.... I gave up dating any JW, you do have more options outside of JW, since you will be going to college you will see options.... don't rush take your time in the future you may change ur mind but don't limit yourself to thinking you need to find a mate in JW, think about what will happen if you walk away from this religion & married to a devoted JW? ....