It must be tough... I've been out since 87... didn't deal with it , till lately when mt sister started coming to see us, she is in Hawaii and the only active one in a third Gen family...
since being around her again it brought it to the front.. she's been shunning us My Mom inactive Dad Df'd me and youger sis DF'd 2 younger bros never baptised..
Now she wants to visit us and acts like nothing's happen for the last 20 years... I felt uncomfortable just being around her.. I wondered if things had changed.. since her reappearance.. but from what I've read on here..it hasn't ,I have hope she may come to her senses..
But I have empathy for those in divided houses.. I can't even imagine seeing some one you love, and feeling like they are not really with you..
So hang in there man.. someday .. you never know ..
TT