I still feel disgusted when I think about the questions they asked me
and how they questioned me to get every minute detail about things.
They must have got a kick out of it somehow. I was only 24 at the time
so it was highly embarrassing talking about certain things with 3 men In
their 60s
Speaking from experience, my ex-father in law is an elder. And he'd tell the family at the dinner table all what was going on in JC's and who's done what with who. They'd all have a good laugh. So it happens, believe me.
The worst was when i was on holiday with my ex-wife and her family and two elders families. We sat round a big table and the three elders there all told us of a JC they were on recently. They named the brother, told us all what he did and then said "we knew he was repentant, but we DF'd him anyway" and they all laughed. Wives included.
They ruined someones life "for a laugh" sick f**ks.