I, myself are not a witness, I am 18, male and live in England.
Six months ago I met a 17 year old Jehovah's Witness, became very attached to her and grew to love her. Her mother does not approve of the relationship at all and has resorted to threats to throw her out, grounding her, ignoring her, contacting Elders, unless she discontinues seeing me. First question: if her not seeing me makes her very unhappy and her seeing me makes her very happy-why is it wrong that we stay together? Wouldn't God want his children to be happy-what does he have against us?
Next, her mother contacts the Elders. They visit her house and tell her to stop seeing me or she will be disfellowshipped. They bully her into breaking up with me. They ask her very personal questions about what we did when we were alone without anyone else present-is this right? Why can't Jehovah's Witnessess accept me and are all congregations this prejudice?
Next, she says she doesn't want to break up with me. Her mother has thrown her out-in all families is the religion more important than a daughters wellbeing or is this mother abnormal?
Are there any web sites (or bible/watchtower references) that state the rules clearly?
Thanks in advance for any help I may receive.
Good Luck!
Overseer.