At least Ashton realized it.
And Lloyd never will. His mind works for whatever is best for him.
I remember in his Reluctant Shithead book, when talking about how Dijana caught him sexting, he said something about how his mind just separated him being a Witness with what he was doing. Like one had nothing to do with the other, he could go online and watch porn and sext and whatever else, and then just stop and go about being a Witness and elder and husband when it was time to do that.
So he can solicit prostitutes and cheat on his wife and get angry when she doesn't agree to an open marriage, but then set that aside and act like the caring, concerned activist who's in a position to call out Witnesses and child abusers.
That has to be some sort of mental condition with narcissists, that you can think "well, I'm not watching porn while I'm in an elder's meeting, so it's okay that I watch porn when I'm an elder. I'm not sexting girls while talking to my wife, so it's okay that I sext girls while I'm married to my wife. I'm not soliciting prostitutes at the same exact time that I'm calling out JWs for CSA, so the two have nothing to do with each other."