Thank you, Blondie.
Applying the rules of our country, I have the full custody for our child until he's 18 years old. I will only lose that right if I willingly give up such, and assign someone else for the custody.
Also, I will not put him on the birth certificate of our child. So he has to prove first his paternity. In doing so, he has to come to our territory which will really be difficult for him considering my family, relatives and friends.