Your uncle sounds clueless asking about totally irrelevant things.
Are you saying a group that recruits under the false idea that they have always had the truth shouldn't be questioned about their history? Truth is a constant. Are you saying that a group that recruits under the false idea that they are pure before the eyes of god shouldn't be questioned about their policy of hiding child abusers? If god loves the little children then there should be consequences. Are you saying that a group that would take from a elderly widow to enrich the lives of the hierarchy shouldn't be questioned about everything including what you might consider irrelevant? These men are thieves that prey upon the weak.
That non-JW Uncle did an outstanding job.