TD asked:
None of my business, but back when you used to feel this way, how did you live? Did you get your childhood immunizations? Did you ever have a tetanus shot after an injury?
I don't mind. Childhood was non-WT, so it was a non-issue. Same for when I was in the service. Afterwards and prior to 2000(?) I avoided all blood products per "company" (read WT) policy . That is, I say I avoided, but I was actually pretty healthy. So it would probably be more honest to say the issue never arose for me. Likewise for the family. (Even with the wife during childbirth. The scariest parts of childbirth came when they became teenagers. :)
It has been since 2000 (I think) when "company" policy changed and this required actually having to think these things thru.
It's interesting how I don't remember any discussions amongst JWs over what position to take. It was simply a non-issue, maybe comparable to Burger King adding a few extra items on their menu. I think from the platform the leaning was towards a favorable position in connection with fractions. Some of the reasonings seem so non-sensical now. (e.g. comparing fractions to the coconut on a macaroon cookie, or that these fractions can be found elsewhere in nature, so that makes then OK.)
I think the thing that got me started thinking the most was when an older sister had to go to the hospital for (something - I don't quite remember) and her blood count got real low. She wouldn't take any EPO. (I think that is what they were offering her) She objected to it because of the way it was/is manufactured. One of the HLC brothers called me all exasperated because the sister would not budge from her 'conscientious' choice not to take the stuff. The HLC brother was telling me on the phone how there was nothing more he could do for the sister until she becomes more reasonable. And I was sitting there listening and thinking, 'I thought this was a conscience matter and we are supposed to support the friends with whatever decision they have made in their hearts.' From the sound of the HLC brother, you would have thought that TAKING fractions was the new policy. (And judging by the OPs discussion, it may be.)
Another factor that got me thinking more was that, as an elder, the friends would want me to sign their blood card/DPA. This posed a conscience problem that might take some explaining. For example, if I wanted whole blood, none of the friends would support that as my choice. Therefore, if I viewed fractions as the same as whole blood, how could I sign their cards, in effect telling them that I would support their choice to take them? To me, the whole 'conscience' matter concerning fractions raised problems with my conscience.
But to make a long story a little shorter, this got me thinking about what Bible principles might apply - that is, IF whole blood was actually forbidden. Thus, the above verses is what I came up with. And if blood were actually "clearly" forbidden like the "company" says, then I truly believe that the principles contained in the above verses would necessarily rule out fractions also. (One of the best illustrations I ever heard was to ask how far a car thief would have to disassemble a car before it became a conscience matter.)
In time I ran into more expansive thinking on the subject (including threads you have commented on here, maybe especially your comments, but some others too). Also, the word games that the "company" plays with this subject started becoming more apparent. All that changed the entire picture for me.
(Incidentally, the more I think about this, the more I remember having to worry about the makeup of hotdogs and plywood and dogfood - all that mental energy wasted on - what? - Nothing! Nothing that a new WT policy couldn't just wipe away later.)
There was something about Acts 15:29 I was going to bring up one day that I was hoping you and "Terry" might comment on. But I'll save that for another time and thread.
I hope this (rather long-winded) explanation answers your question.
Take Care