Mike Rowe's podcasts are amazingly good
nonjwspouse
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Looking for Podcast recommendations.
by nicolaou ini'm a postman so i get 4 to 5 hours every day with my headphones on and i'm really chewing through some stuff.
i'm after science (evolutionary biology and anthropology especially), history of religion and comedy.
old sci-fi audio books are also a favourite.
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nonjwspouse
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Finding our true identity after spiritual abuse in the Watchtower
by Faith after Deception ini personally find that when you’ve been around toxic people long enough, either in a family environment or as part of a cult or a highly controlling church, (or worse, both!
), you tend to get a very twisted view of your own identity and also human nature in general.. in a religious context, you may end up feeling that you are a “lowly worm” and that in general, people can’t be trusted.
since all you’ve known of relationships has been painful, complex and tiresome, it can give you the impression that this is the norm and that’s all you can expect .
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nonjwspouse
Miz my clumsy fingers hit the dislike button. I apologize. I wanted to hit the like button. I am so glad to hear you are taking the steps towards a better life by walking away from the toxic double life you were a part of. A HUGE cyber hug for you as I know this is a difficult time for you.
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Seeking advice
by Mizalisa ini'm not a jw, nor was i raised jw.
for the past three years i have been involved with a man who was raised jw, who at first told me he no longer believed as they did, but who, it has become clear over time, has not told his family or religious community the truth.
he has strung me along for years, never introduced me to anyone in his life.
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nonjwspouse
Miz, I'm in your shoes, only I didn't find out about the real cult truth until years into our marriage and having a child.
I must say, as wonderful of a person you think he is, DO NOT PURSUE THIS. He is mentally in. That is a deal breaker. Take it from someone now living the hell of being the "worldly person". My marriage has multiple issues, but many of them, ( the major ones) are a cause of his emotional stunting from the upbringing in the cult.
Walk ( fast) away and remind yourself, you do not deserve a life of these constant issues the JW mindset brings. After 15 years of hoping and trying; giving it my best, I am worn down. I asked my husband to move out a couple weeks ago.
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Trump Derangement Syndrome Is Alive and Well
by minimus ini was on facebook and a person i have known for a long time posted how trump is mentally ill and is truly a psychopath.
a couple of her friends chimed in when i suggested that perhaps the fb friend was really the psychopath.
a couple of her friends began to defend her but i was surprised by how many people defended the president!
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nonjwspouse
I'll post this again, Deborah Messing's call out to "out" Trump supporters so they can be blackballed is the embarrassing, intolerant, damaging, McCarthyism era all over again.
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Do You Think People Should Be Scorned For Wearing A Red MAGA Hat?
by minimus indo you support free choice to wear a political hat or article of clothing?
if someone wants to put a bumper sticker on their car in support of a political candidate or party, should they be able to do it without fear of being maligned or abused?
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nonjwspouse
In addition to the red Maga Hat, how about Actress Deborah Messing's call to Hollyood to "out" anyone in the entertainment industry who is a Trump supporter, so the industry ( and public) can blackball them. ( This is the ridiculous McCarthy era all over again!)
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Head Coverings for Women
by Diogenesister inwatchtower's ignorance around the historical background to many biblical directives has had a very negative effect on the lives of witnesses.. for instance paul said women should cover their heads because in corinth prostitutes walked the streets plying for business with their heads uncovered.
hence head coverings were never a symbol of headship but a directive very specific to that period, as was the blood directive!!.
watchtower leaders have been lawyers, businessmen, civil servants and door-to-door book salesmen, never, ever historians or biblical scholars.
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nonjwspouse
My own personal view was that due to the woman having naturally given a head covering, that they were too wear the scarves to lower themselves among the angels. Since women are above the angels, and this was an act of humility.
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Powerful Sayings That Means A Lot For You Personally
by ZindagiNaMilegiDobaara injust was thinking how some powerful quotes, remarks, sayings hit the mark with me and how much it enriched/ enhamced/influences my life.
love beyond color.
reality is that which when you no longer believe in it , does not go away.. “the truth is a battle of perceptions.
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nonjwspouse
It's never wrong to have a question you can't answer. It's ALWAYS wrong to have an answer you can't question.
PS Thank you everyone for your invaluable help yesterday
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TV: Tuesday, Aug. 13th: Silent No More, Part 2: The Verdicts
by AndersonsInfo inpart two (tuesday):.
tv: https://www.kcra.com/article/silent-no-more-part-2-the-verdicts/28660625.
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nonjwspouse
I opened the link and left it open on the non private browser. Just a little sneaky way for my husband to begin reading it.
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Real Estate / Legal Question re: KH Sales / Title Transfers
by RubaDub insorry about being a bit lazy and not researching this myself but when there is a real estate sale, as far as i know, this is public information and on record ( at least in most areas i am aware of).. a kh sale would be a public record.. but when a real title is transferred, isn't this public information also?
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i ask this question because there seems to be some questions here that the publishers did not know the title of their kh had been transferred to the big borg.. any thoughts on this.. rub a dub.
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nonjwspouse
Well the congregation still owns the one my MIL goes to , so far. It's in a bad area of town ( High Crime)
Her previous congregation for 30+ years was first drained of the money saved for a new hall, the property donated was taken ( likely sold by now) and her congregation was eventually merged into the new one.
This is the listing for the previous congregation (that sold the Hall to an artist who is now moving) . https://www.movoto.com/home/1777-white-oak-rd-chattanooga-tn-37415-575_1298544
Interestingly, the one she went to for a little while, her sisters congregation, are also still listed as the owners of the property. Hmm... They are getting a new hall built currently, though. It will be interesting to see how that property is listed.
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Ladies and Gents.... Domestic violence!
by Theonlyoneleft indomestic violence in the “tooth”... is this a thing?!.
you are starting to know me by now as i’m always full of questions... my clogs are always in motion and never stop... so another question for you to give me some guidance if you can.
based on pasts experience or cases you might heard of or seen, what advice could you give me in helping someone that is a jehovah witness, married with another jw but lives a marriage that is plagued by emotional domestic abuse and financial control?
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nonjwspouse
just a side note, the verbal and physical abuse did not happen in my marriage until my husband began studies and "put on a new personality.
Even though he has not been back to studies or the hall for years now, the "toothpaste has been squeezes out of the tube." He crossed the critical, previously forbidden line of verbal and physical abuse, so it is now something he continues ( of course blaming me for his behavior) ,
BTW he is in the process of moving out at my insistence. No divorce talk yet, but separation