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  Bananas and mayonaise

  by Satanus in

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  ever experiment w combinations, and come up w something really good?

  bananas and mayo is mine.. s.

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  Jack Daniels and ice cream

  Hmmmmmmmm
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  RIP Sir Patrick Moore

  by Chariklo in

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  very, very sad to learn of the death of sir patrick moore.

  i've been following his programme the sky at night ever since the first one.

  he started my lifelong interest in astronomy, and is partly responsible for my sons' careers.. wonderful enthusiasm!.

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  He was a neighbour of a family friend in Selsey, little ecentric but a very witty and intelligent man. Never married and only found out today his fiancee was killed in WWII and he said he would never settle for second best. Lets hope they are together now. RIP Patrick.
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  Did you ever have to walk out of/shut off a movie when watching with JWs?

  by keyser soze in

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  i can only recall one occasion.

  it was when my brother and future wife were dating.

  they had dinner at my parents' house, along with her uber-zealous/borderline psychotic parents.

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  I made him stand up @ a football match. Was minutes silence for young boy who died - its showing respect - end of!
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  Did you ever have to walk out of/shut off a movie when watching with JWs?

  by keyser soze in

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  i can only recall one occasion.

  it was when my brother and future wife were dating.

  they had dinner at my parents' house, along with her uber-zealous/borderline psychotic parents.

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  Before I knew the truth about the ex his favourite film was School of Rock and The Rings Trilogy but would turn the channel over if anything Disney or Smurf related came on and as for Harry Potter, that was a total no-no! Any film that had any "naughty" bits in it he would fast forward. Of course I just put it down to him being a bit odd but it all makes sense now!!
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  JW played me and broke my heart

  by new22day in

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  This is soooo familiar!! Yep he is shifting the blame onto you. I had all that. Also the I am in a bad place, I need some time to myself mixed into the I have been ill, I have collapsed, my son had an accident (which to me was the worse one if he was using his son as an excuse), van broken down (yep was a window cleaner!). This one could lie for England! When you have a blue moment take the dog for a walk or borrow one, put some music on (nothing sad and especially not Adele), keep your mind busy and turn your phone off. Something loud and satanic works . He will no doubt get on with his life as if nothing happened. My mates said the same to me, they would never have guessed he was religious especially not jw and never once did he try and convert, nothing. Just goes to show what an expert at deception and lying he is/was.
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  JW played me and broke my heart

  by new22day in

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  Outlaw - love the pic - likeness is uncanny!!!!
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  JW played me and broke my heart

  by new22day in

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  lost1

  Hi New22day. I dont post here much but your post touched a nerve with me. Your story is very similar to my story. Everything said on here is 100% true. jgnat gave me some good advice when I first posted. Yes me & this bozo were both in our 40's and he lied, kept me a secret, never met his family and it was one big fat lie after another. Took 6 months before I found out he was a jw and only coz I had nagging doubts and googled his name and a couple of posts on here came up. Lets say someone on here sure had it in for him for wrecking his marriage. I still never confronted him with this but have spoken privately to this person who told me bluntly to get my butt out of it! We were together a year which is not long but long enough and still now I have my moments when I wish things had been different. He has never once apologised or explained anything. He has now moved onto pastures new and I actually have some sympathy for his wife. Yes that was another small detail he omitted to say. It will take time but you will come out of it. I badly wanted to go to his KH and confront him but it would do no good, they will only believe him. He lived about 150 miles from me so from his point of view I would never just turn up on his doorstep one evening to surprise him. I could list all the excuses he came out with but its just too boring for words but suffice to say he had every illness going. With me nearly every rule was broken, in his jw life he was the model COBE, but he could lie for England. I was totally taken in but doubt if I will be the last in his line of conquests. Will take time but forget him, move on, find a friend you can cry on their shoulder, get drunk, but have FUN!! Life too short.

  If you ever want to chat please feel free to pm me.
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  they just refuse to get trapped! (mice)

  by nuthouse escapee in

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  it's now "game on" between me and the mice.

  my landlady put 15 traps down throughout their apartment on the first floor.

  in 2 weeks i caught the 5 not so bright mice.

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  One thing that worked every time for me was baiting the trap with pieces of chocolate. They could not get enough of it. I used humane traps and released them in the woods nearby but the little buggers returned. Was not so humane next time!
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  Do you ever make a toast (raise your glass, I mean, not put bread in a toaster)?

  by sd-7 in

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  i had quite the fun time at my wedding reception with the jw family so worried that my non-jw aunt was going to do a toast.

  unlike them, i do have regard for not offending the conscience of others, so of course i wasn't going to allow that under the circumstances.

  i mean, if they really thought i was going to let them do that, why did they even come in the first place?

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  The 'ex' refused ever to say "cheers" - it was always "7 years"! Even when I first meet him and had no idea of the lies that were to follow. He always used to say you had to look the person in the eye and say 7 years and if not you would get 7 years bad sex!!
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  UK BBC3 Don't Tell The Bride on now

  by ballistic in

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  uk bbc3 don't tell the bride on now.

  young couple getting married on "don't tell the bride" are ex-jws.

  it's on tv right now.

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  Hello!