I'll be implementing this clause into our agreement.
"Accordingly, the Mother and Father shall not directly or indirectly influence (child) so as to estrange them from the other parent. Each parent shall also not do anything that might prejudice (child) against the other parent or impair their regard for the other parent. To further support this commitment, each parent shall do everything in her or his power to prevent any of their respective family members from doing or saying anything might prejudice (child) against the other parent or impair their regard for the other parent."
How could the courts possibly come up with real "proof" to enforce this? You'd have to literally be a detective 24/7. May as well stay.
This situation sucks. Unless your wife/ex wife wakes up and leaves the jws she will sneak all around this. Its part of the programming. Which is well in place since she has "gone back to get reinstated so her friends can see her daughter."
I did what your wife did. Personally, I was dfed for marrying out of the "truth". Went back for my son and support. All it did was drill the brainwashing in even further into my head. Point being, your going to have to get ruthless. It sounds like you may have a glimmer of hope about the possible "honest" intentions or kind nature about jws. The culture breeds and has a certain thinking that once you are out of the immediate picture , you are nothing more than the walking dead, that legally she ,your soon to be ex, will have to let you see your daughter. Twist, the custodial parent may /can and could take you back to court at anytime and come up with her own list of amendments, ect, rendering the "clause" moot. Yet in the eyes of jws its already moot.
You will have to fight to get anywhere or even remain in a position to see your daughter at all.
There is however another route, but its drastic and I don't know which country you live in , to see if you could get away with it legally (I'm in the US). It probably would work just about anywhere. I wish I would have done it with my son sometimes. But I learned of it years later. You would have to have balls of steal man to do it. But if keeping you daughter safe from the jws is important to you, because they WILL teach her that you are dead basically, then pm me. May need more content first though.
Conversely, I don't mind typing it out here if others want to know , that might be in a similar situation. Warning: its all kinds of messed up yet legal in the US at least. I lost my battle due to not knowing I could have done this , doesn't mean others have to lose theirs.
