@LongHairGal The point here is not debating a topic. I asked you to compare these two translations because the KJV used the same word hell to mean three different concepts (Tartarus, Hades and Gehenna respectively). How can a man who has read only the KJV all his life understand these verses and the bible as a whole? The New World Translation of the Holy Scriptures is an excellent bible.
The policies you call unchristian and man-made I do not know unless you are specific. But I know this. We are under the law of the Christ. The law of the Christ means freedom but slavery to God and Christ. When a person commits a serious sin, should he be disfellowshipped? If yes, should he be shunned? Is it scriptural? If all answers are yes, then this is God's will for the congregation.
One thing people always forget is this. The Christian congregation does not belong to men, it belongs to God. Jesus is the head and leader of the congregation not men. These men are undersheperds appointed by the Holy spirit but accountable to Christ and God. Can overseers make mistakes? Absolutely but does that invalidate their appointment? No. Moses fell, Aaron fell, David fell, Peter fell. Do their fall invalidate their responsibilities as God's representatives? Absolutely not.
Don't worship the man, worship only God. Exercise faith in Jesus Christ. Jehovah in his word says "Be obedient to those who are taking the lead among you and be submissive" - Hebrews 13:17. This is God's requirement, not man's.