This elder is a real uber one. My wife on the other hand isn’t the most zealous dub in the world. Five hours a month tops.
I am beginning to think he is some narcissistic bully going after weaker members of the flock.
Where I live most congregations have kind of reached an equilibrium where no one joins or no one leaves. I think he misses the good old days of steak-outs and markings and kangaroo court.