I know you mean well with that comment, but I would suggest people don't get into relationships with anyone simply based on physical attraction - Simon
Yep I do mean well and would never suggest that it should be based on physical attraction. I was merely thinking of domestic abuse situations where the abuser says things like "No one else will have you but me" - "I'm the only one that finds you attractive" and other such degrading and dehumanising words. I help to run a support group for women who have been in domestic abuse situations and mostly, it's psychological/emotional abuse that has come from their former partners/husbands/girlfriends/wives - not just guys that do it.
Contrary to JW folk lore, marriage is not a 3 strand cord and if it is, whatever that 3rd cord is, is going to rip it apart. It should be you and them, just 2 people, united.
Fun fact. The 3 strand cord actually comes from the old handfasting ceremonies. Handfasting is a pagan ceremony and therefore the 3 fold/strand cord or ribbon comes from Paganism - but Shhhh, don't tell the witnesses LOL.
https://www.forthisjoyousoccasion.com/unity-handfasting-ceremonies.html