Las Malvinas son Argentinas
The best way to control someone is to isolate them and I think Lloyd has her right where he wants her. Alone, no friends, stuck with two kids and her elderly parents are her only outlet. Being single with two young children is exactly the ball and chain threat Lloyd needs.
He's obviously had her believe everything. That is how he has controlled her, kept her isolated from friends and family - typical narcissist AND JLE if you're reading that is exactly how you come across to everyone! An emotionally abusive husband and if you were in Scotland pal - oh boy!! You'd be up in front of the CPS for that because emotional/psychological abuse in the UK, is a crime.
Dijana, if you are reading, I am so happy that you have taken your honour back, by going through these divorce proceedings. You deserve to be treated far better than what you have been and he does not deserve you, cheating scumbag! You are a beautiful woman and if you wanted to go into another relationship with someone else, I guarantee you, you will have no problems whatsoever. It is awful the way you have been treated Djiana and I hope you are seeing the light from a very long dark tunnel. Good luck with your course, stick at it and make a brilliant life for you and your girls. That's also what I have done, went back to college as a mature woman to change career due to a physical ailment that does not allow me to do certain jobs. You have definitely got this Dijana.