Simon says - what would you do if your husband was caught living the life he has and was unapologetic about it?
I would kick that loser to the kerb, never to look back.
Story time
When I was 19 I was seeing a guy who was 17 - don't get too excited guys - consenting age in Scotland is 16. Our relationship started, shortly after I had left the cult back in 1999. It lasted four months because I found out he was cheating on me - WITH A THIRTEEN YEAR OLD! - DUMPED him on hte spot! Oh it hurt - badly. And just like back then, not realising I could go to the police about it, I obviously never took it to the police. I did make a statement about it some years later to the police, but unless she came forward, then nothing they could do. She married him - would you believe it?
When you cheat you are breaking trust and it is very difficult to recover from. Just last year I helped a friend go through one of the worst breakups. She seen pictures on her partners computer. Adult pictures of him with his bit on the side for the 9 of 11 years they were together - and other pictures that police have as they seized the computer.
My friend took the children and fled - even though he had moved out and went to live with his bit, she didn't feel safe staying where she was. She was deeply traumatised by it all and still is to some extent. It's been 13 months since that discovery.
So I would kick him to the kerb and never look back.