Let them stay and live a fantasy if they can't cope with the real world. Plenty of people are leaving, those that want to stay can't cope with the nasty, frightening world and want to snuggle down in their comfort blanket. Frankly they are no use to the real world anyway, they can't even help themselves.
Xanthippe
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THIS Is How JWs Feel About The Cut In Magazines And Content
by pale.emperor ini asked the question on quora "how do jehovah's witnesses feel about the announcement that the public edition of the watchtower and awake!
magazine is being reduced to just 3 issues a year and the number of books, tracts, and online content are being discontinued?".
https://www.quora.com/how-do-jehovahs-witnesses-feel-about-the-announcement-that-the-public-edition-of-the-watchtower-and-awake-magazine-is-being-reduced-to-just-3-issues-a-year-and-the-number-of-books-tracts-and-online-content-are-being-discontinued.
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Did you leave the JW RECENTLY? Really? Recently? WTF were you thinking?
by The Real Edward Gentry innot to be overly harsh...but if you just left, what the hell were you thinking?
between 1995 and now, you never did an internet search of "jehovahs-witness" or "watchtower"?
good god.
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Edward Gentry I guess you haven't read How to win friends and influence people.
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October 1, 2017 TO ALL BOE IN NIGERIA Re: Local Needs For the Week of October 16-22
by wifibandit inoctober 1, 2017 to all bodies of elders in nigeria re: local needs for the week of october 16-22.
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Whose italics are they in the paragraph about children should be encouraged to see donating regularly as part of their worship? Are they wifiBandits?
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Who has a harder time leaving JW's - Born Ins or those who converted?
by HeyLittleGirl inmy freind (who is also out) and i were talking about this the other night.
i was a born-in, 3rd generation jw and she converted when she was in her late 20's.. when she left, she said that she knew the world wasn't as bad as she was told as a jw, so she knew she would be fine.
also, she still had lots of "worldly" family who welcomed her back with open arms.. it was harder for me - i had nobody in the "world", no family or freinds.
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As a born-in you usually have no education or training so finances are very difficult when you leave. Plus if you have pioneered for any length of time, very little experience of even having a full time job. No house because you could never afford a mortgage while pioneering.
Added to that complete fear of the world. No friends at all outside the religion and having lost contact with my small amount of nonJW family, I found the couple or three cousins I had left were distrustful of me and some were annoyed I think because they didn't understand the distance we used to have because of the cult. Who can blame them.
Losing your faith cannot be underestimated either. That's very hard to cope with. Some converts go back to the church they were in before but born-ins can't do that.
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Great voice. Felt sorry for them actually. Nineteen and stuck in a cult, throwing your life away. Now who does that remind me of.
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Yes!! And can someone post the now (in)famous pic of Splane 'explaining' the overlapping generations?
Yeah Stuck that's what I thought it was when I saw WakeMe's post. They've been doing these overlapping era diagrams for a long time. Wasn's there one about the march of the world powers and how some of those overlapped? Didn't have to look too far for 'new light' did they?
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January 2018 Watchtower
by Listener inthe cover page shows a photo jws loading a small plane with watchtower literature to take to a remote area in bolivia.the first study article introduces the 2018 year text isa.
40:31 "those hoping in jehovah will regain power".
according to them, you may leave home to do field service or attend a meeting feeling exhausted but you return home refreshed and 'jesus' yoke is kindly indeed!
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Selfish people are like hedgehogs. Oh how I miss the depth of intellectual discussion I left behind in that religion.
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Is it a once a week church now? Or can you skip that and listen on the phone?
by Xanthippe ini would like to outline what exactly this religion is now because i've lost track of all the changes on here.
this forum's my only source of information as my family still-in shun me.
so what do jws do now?.
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At first I thought you were having me on that malingering is in DSM-5 but it is. How strange.
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Is it a once a week church now? Or can you skip that and listen on the phone?
by Xanthippe ini would like to outline what exactly this religion is now because i've lost track of all the changes on here.
this forum's my only source of information as my family still-in shun me.
so what do jws do now?.
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Xan: Also, they may come and "shepherd" you to find out your "story" to judge if you are worthy of being on the phone. - Wakanda
Wow do they have to get a sick note form the doctor?
Secondary gain from illnesses creates the perfect world for small minds: You are ill so you cannot do as much as you should. Illnesses give JWs a fantastic excuse to cruise their way to the new system of things. - Steve2
But those who are faking it or making more of ill health than they should, what about their seeing-all God? Do any of these who are left in,actually still believe in God I wonder sometimes. Not that I do but aren't they supposed to ......?
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Is it a once a week church now? Or can you skip that and listen on the phone?
by Xanthippe ini would like to outline what exactly this religion is now because i've lost track of all the changes on here.
this forum's my only source of information as my family still-in shun me.
so what do jws do now?.
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Yeah scratchme1010 I thought anyone could listen by phone. So I suppose if they don't think you're 'worthy' and yet you're long term sick or depressed you still get branded spiritually sick for missing meetings. Well it gets elders out of caring for you which is the name of the game!