Phobia in the English language denotes more than just an irrational fear. It denotes an extreme dislike or antipathy also.
The whole "hate the sin love the sinner" attitude is also still homophobic in nature. Homosexuality is only a sin because some old book says it's a sin.
What if someone were to say, "I love religious people, but I hate it when they practice their religion. Their activities should be outlawed. We should be able to deny religious people services because I hate their practices. But I'm not hating them! Just what they're doing!"
its a sick and twisted way of thinking
