This is a good place as any for my one and only comment here, since it involves someone seemingly leaving this site.
As much as you need as an Ex JW to distance yourself from that insidious and dangerous cult, at some point in your (new) life you also need to stop being 'an Ex JW'. Blondie may have reached that point. I know I have.
While it's helpful for a while to detoxify yourself from their poison, they still have a hold of you in some way if you spend too much of your time even thinking about them. That's my feeling anyway. Don't give them your precious time in ANY way, even to hate them.
An Ex JW shouldn't be who you are now. Be the person you would/should have been all along. Living well and free, even of thoughts of them, is the best revenge.