Posts by gypsyvine

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My boyfriend is thinking of becoming reinstated

by gypsyvine in

i'm not really sure where to post this.. i've been with my boyfriend for 4 months now and i've really never been happier.

i was brought up in the church of christ with an elder father and i really believe in my religion, although i will admit to being a lousy christian at times due to sheer laziness (not wanting to get out of bed on sunday).

my boyfriend essentially lives with me.

gypsyvine

flamegrilled - I came here because I am not a JW and I needed advice from people who know more about it than me. Not to ask strangers for advice..

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My boyfriend is thinking of becoming reinstated

by gypsyvine in

i'm not really sure where to post this.. i've been with my boyfriend for 4 months now and i've really never been happier.

i was brought up in the church of christ with an elder father and i really believe in my religion, although i will admit to being a lousy christian at times due to sheer laziness (not wanting to get out of bed on sunday).

my boyfriend essentially lives with me.

gypsyvine

Giordano - Church of Christ doesn't DF anyone or get in anyones business. Your screw ups are between you and God. You ask him for forgiveness. I can come and go to church as I please - they reach out to me and say they miss me, but they don't judge. You're not supposed to have sex before marriage but you don't get like shunned for it.

His mom, dad, and brothers all talk to him, but I don't think she can be open about it. I'm close with his brothers. So I know none of them are really following the rules.

I just want to scoop him up and move away. I feel if it wasn't for his parents he wouldn't go..

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My boyfriend is thinking of becoming reinstated

by gypsyvine in

i'm not really sure where to post this.. i've been with my boyfriend for 4 months now and i've really never been happier.

i was brought up in the church of christ with an elder father and i really believe in my religion, although i will admit to being a lousy christian at times due to sheer laziness (not wanting to get out of bed on sunday).

my boyfriend essentially lives with me.

gypsyvine

@steve2 - thank you for that. Hard to read, but all made sense.

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My boyfriend is thinking of becoming reinstated

by gypsyvine in

i'm not really sure where to post this.. i've been with my boyfriend for 4 months now and i've really never been happier.

i was brought up in the church of christ with an elder father and i really believe in my religion, although i will admit to being a lousy christian at times due to sheer laziness (not wanting to get out of bed on sunday).

my boyfriend essentially lives with me.

gypsyvine

His mother loves me by the way... which is so weird. Like invites me over for dinner and we have gone out drinking before..

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My boyfriend is thinking of becoming reinstated

by gypsyvine in

i'm not really sure where to post this.. i've been with my boyfriend for 4 months now and i've really never been happier.

i was brought up in the church of christ with an elder father and i really believe in my religion, although i will admit to being a lousy christian at times due to sheer laziness (not wanting to get out of bed on sunday).

my boyfriend essentially lives with me.

gypsyvine

@stan livedeath I think for smoking weed and having sex or something?

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My boyfriend is thinking of becoming reinstated

by gypsyvine in

i'm not really sure where to post this.. i've been with my boyfriend for 4 months now and i've really never been happier.

i was brought up in the church of christ with an elder father and i really believe in my religion, although i will admit to being a lousy christian at times due to sheer laziness (not wanting to get out of bed on sunday).

my boyfriend essentially lives with me.

gypsyvine

I'm not really sure where to post this.

I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months now and I've really never been happier. I was brought up in the Church of Christ with an Elder father and I really believe in my religion, although I will admit to being a lousy Christian at times due to sheer laziness (not wanting to get out of bed on Sunday)

My boyfriend essentially lives with me. His entire family is JW - he is currently disfellowshipped, but has been talking about getting reinstated and actually told his mom he would get reinstated (he's really just doing this to please her). Then supposedly he's going to stop going and I guess just keep me some kind of secret and then marry me someday even though I'll never be a JW. It's all very confusing. Should I just get out now? He got DF'd about 2-4 months before we met I believe.

This is really hard because I've never been so in love, but I am open to the harsh truth.