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It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars
by Newly Enlightened in
1. watchtower
2. scandals
original reddit post (removed).
KIMSILVIO

"I had a friend once but he didn't like her" is such a sad indictment of a relationship. I hope she starts to spread her wings and learns to expand her own social network so he isn't in such complete control of her life. It's not like she is the one in a foreign country so she has that advantage after all.
There is a lot of sadness to this story, a lot of it is untold. I think the reason that there are so many questions about this (apart from LL being the subject), is that I haven't told the story in its entirety and some things don't make sense, particularly in relation to my behaviour and why I did certain things. Pass or fail, I was trying to protect Dijana and Producer Bob.
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It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars
by Newly Enlightened in
1. watchtower
2. scandals
original reddit post (removed).
KIMSILVIO

Glad to See that Kim Silvio has made it to this forum..........
And thank you to Lloyd for pointing out the forum to me......so much information here!!!!
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It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars
by Newly Enlightened in
1. watchtower
2. scandals
original reddit post (removed).
KIMSILVIO

And thanks for answering our questions and engaging with us - we're a fairly diverse, inquisitive lot here.
No problem at all, its quite therapeutic for me :) I am really kicking myself that I wasn't here a lot earlier. I notice some OG activists and community members in here - this is the "vault of secrets of the little Lloyd"
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It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars
by Newly Enlightened in
1. watchtower
2. scandals
original reddit post (removed).
KIMSILVIO

So Dijana told you she was divorcing him? When did you hear that? Any other details about hiring an attorney, etc?
Yes, and she told Lloyd that also. He was in Thailand at the time. He was supposed to stay in Thailand for 2 months however when she told him that she wanted a divorce, he came back from Thailand pretty quickly as he doesn't want a divorce. He wants to stay married to her and only visit sex workers "every month or two".
Dijana had spoken to a lawyer prior to telling him that.
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It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars
by Newly Enlightened in
1. watchtower
2. scandals
original reddit post (removed).
KIMSILVIO

JLE, said is wife was at college?
Yes, Dijana is taking a course on something she is interested in, and also felt that it would lead her to a career path for herself, so she would be able to support herself and the girls. It had nothing to do with Lloyd. She worked for many years to support them through the translating business (before Lloyd became an "activist" fulltime, I don't think she would want to go through that again.
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It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars
by Newly Enlightened in
1. watchtower
2. scandals
original reddit post (removed).
KIMSILVIO

I think many of us have been 'victims' of Lloydy Boy's one way or another.
Thanks Kim, I am absolutely kicking myself for not finding this forum sooner.....I feel at safe here which is a huge change xx
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It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars
by Newly Enlightened in
1. watchtower
2. scandals
original reddit post (removed).
KIMSILVIO

I watched your original interview with him from a couple of years ago, before it was taken down. I think it’s a good idea for people who now find the channel problematic to ask for their videos to be removed.
I found his interview with you to be very insensitive. One question in particular he asked you was intrusive and somewhat inappropriate, probably because he was thinking foremost of views and likes rather that you, the person he was interviewing.
Thank you to the very kind person who taught me how to respond to messages, its not quite right, but I am working on it :)
I know the exact question that you are asking and you are right, it was insensitive and I felt very uncomfortable. I had said prior to the interview to a friend that I would not answer any questions like that, however I didn't hold my boundary very well and answered the question. I have grown a lot as a person since then. I asked him to take my video down shortly after this all blew up, and to his credit he did without an arguement.
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It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars
by Newly Enlightened in
1. watchtower
2. scandals
original reddit post (removed).
KIMSILVIO

No problem listener 👍
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Inactive after 6 months: where is it written?
by psyco in
1. watchtower
2. beliefs
i cannot find written anywhere that after 6 months without preaching activities reported you are considered an inactive jw.. where is this written?

or is it a non-written rule?.

thanks..
KIMSILVIO

I have no idea, great question ….. hopefully. One one will know 👍
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It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars
by Newly Enlightened in
1. watchtower
2. scandals
original reddit post (removed).
KIMSILVIO

Thank you fastjehu,
if we are ever in the sane country we will have a beer 👍