Now this is vintage Lloyd.
Do you know Lloyd personally? You must do!! I am quite freaked out in this forum as to how well you all seem to know the "real Lloyd". Your comments about the friend of Dijana's could have been me typing....this is freaking me out!
As for the mother, that story has been dramatized quite a bit. Her mother was sad because in their culture divorce is still not as widely accepted as in other countries, and she was worried for the children, and them being separated from their dad.
I don't even need to answer your questions, you already know the answers (said in a very "omg I've found my people" way)
It makes complete sense to me now why Kim and Mike and Marc and Cora responded to me the way they did when I reached out to them for information. They were not surprised, very kind and helpful and didn't try and push me to do anything. They, like all of you I suspect, know the real Lloyd, and know what he is like, and likely knew what I was going through, and what was to come with the backlash from the community.
I am so emotional right now, I can't express how I feel, but this is the first time in a long time that I feel safe. Thank you all