too many leave the WTS and think they have to live some "opposite life" to prove they are really out.
Who
are all these people you have in mind? I've known a fair share of EX
JW's on a personal level. If they got out while still young as I did,
they may have had some casual hookups/ partied a bit in their 20's. But
then settled down to a normal life of marriage, kids, and mortgage.
Off the top of my head I can think of 8 people who are around my age,
that I knew personally while a JW who also got out around age 19-20.
Only 1 of those acquaintances life turned into a trainwreck of bad
choices.