There's the old expression "any port in a storm". But the disdraught woman "Stephanie" should really pass up the Lloyd Evans "port". His is a trap, not a port of safety.
I'll make one more observation,... something that I can't help but notice. I enlarged "Stephanie's" avatar picture and took a screenshot of it. I realize that she very likely already had that photo as an avatar before writing to Lloyd Evans. She is an attractive young woman. Her pose in the photo would be a welcome sight to a boyfriend. If she knows about Lloyd Evans' decision that self-control is for dummies, then her photo is an invitation. If she doesn't know about his exploits, she can still easily find out that he is married. Lloyd has no professional credentials, to my knowledge. Without those, he can't be charged legally with a violation of his "duty of care" to the young woman,...because "professional activist" doesn't HAVE a "duty of care" requirement. This is like watching a train wreck in slow motion.