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It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars
by Newly Enlightened in
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Maybe he confided to his “date” that he has bamboozled exjws into believing that he cares about them,... and that they pay him for this.
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It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars
by Newly Enlightened in
1. watchtower
2. scandals
original reddit post (removed).
Vintage

Does Evans have his “dates” sign non-disclosure agreements?
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It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars
by Newly Enlightened in
1. watchtower
2. scandals
original reddit post (removed).
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Diogenesister said...
”These men were always in competition with their own kids ...”
When a kid’s mother AND father are both narcissists, AND both parents are JWs, how many whammys are we seeing? Double whammy? (the parents) Triple whammy? (Watchtower cult is in the mix) Quadruple whammy? (Watchtower cult is in each of the two narcisistic parents)
Like the men you mention, narcissist mothers also compete with their own kids. To avoid redundancy, sometimes one parent or the other actively interacts with the kids, while the other ignores them. So when BOTH parents are narcissists, and BOTH are owned by the Borg,... that leaves JW kids who receive no natural affection.
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It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars
by Newly Enlightened in
1. watchtower
2. scandals
original reddit post (removed).
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TonusOH, your post reminds me of something I heard from a sweet, young friend that I had, decades ago. She was a witness daughter, possibly baptized, who had broken off a relationship with one “worldly boy”, but had now fallen in love with a different “worldly boy” who she later went on to marry. She and I were sharing a meal at a restaurant. She explained that she had been very devoted to that first boyfriend and would always listen to his stories of his successes and battles,... his hopes and his dreams, and would give him encouragement and support whenever she could. But, after a small event in which he ridiculed her for being in love with him, she saw that her relationship with him was always “her giving understanding to him”, but never the other way around, and she ended the relationship. She had good sense. Not everyone does.
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It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars
by Newly Enlightened in
1. watchtower
2. scandals
original reddit post (removed).
Vintage

I’d love to see it, Debra. Will it fit into the private message box here on this forum? If not, through the private message box, please let me know how to contact you.
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It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars
by Newly Enlightened in
1. watchtower
2. scandals
original reddit post (removed).
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Diogenesister, I wasn’t disagreeing with you at all. You made good points.
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It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars
by Newly Enlightened in
1. watchtower
2. scandals
original reddit post (removed).
Vintage

Trying to have a relationship with a narcissist eventually damages the non-narcissist.
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It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars
by Newly Enlightened in
1. watchtower
2. scandals
original reddit post (removed).
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Debra, I played piano for KH meetings decades ago. I’d like to compose a worship song or two. I also played accordion at assemblies. I could sing alto on a couple of the kingdom songs. JW music now makes me sad, due to its connection to Watchtower’s stranglehold on its victims. What do you have in mind?
Regarding Watchtower false doctrine, type into Google “Beroean Pickets governing body” and at least three YouTube videos debunking the GB will pop up.
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It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars
by Newly Enlightened in
1. watchtower
2. scandals
original reddit post (removed).
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From five months ago:
This nice young woman made her weekly video about not loosing faith in humanity just because a particular exjw activist was such a huge disappointment. She doesn’t say the name of the activist, but she does say that, whatever her own flaws, “she” won’t be going to Thailand for underage girls.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=kKCYv3NaSAI&feature=emb_imp_woyt
P.S. If someone else already posted this video, please excuse me. It’s five months old, so it may already have been posted on this thread.
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It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars
by Newly Enlightened in
1. watchtower
2. scandals
original reddit post (removed).
Vintage

Slimboyfat, that’s an amazing video on narcissism. Sam Vaknin explains how all humans start out with narcissism, but most people work their way out of it as they mature. And he says that an adult narcissist only sees the people around him as useful instruments. It clears up so much. Also, he talks about the narcissist’s voracious appetite for praise.