" Also she told my friend that my past Abuse's as a child I most likely made it worse than it was and my case was likely a very isolated case and not that bad. She felt I have been overstating the abuse that is taking place in the Wt. and there are probably no abuse taking place at all. "
This statement is the red flag.
You are dealing with an unstable person. Don't discuss, talk or apologize to her anymore. Just concern yourself with your health and your healing. She is not remotely concerned for you, or quite frankly other victims of abuse.
Peace and Love.