Thanks for the link Banshee. What do you guys feel is the difference between someone who just drinks alot and an alcoholic. My opinion is that when one's drinking is causing problems in their life and they continue to put alcohol first, they are an alcoholic. For example, some would say I drink quite a bit, however, I don't get mean, I don't drive drunk and I don't drink if I have other responsibilities to attend to. As everyone is aware, some people drink and get extremely mean or emotional or just behave erratic and don't seem to realise it while they are doing it. I am aware of the difference in myself while I'm drinking and I'm aware that alcohol is responsible and am able to control my emotional response to it. Some people start drinking and become completely different people and it's scary. You can say to them "you realise that you're drunk and aren't acting rationally" and they still just dont get it. I dont understand that. When I drink I'm aware of who I am and where I am. No one has ever accused me of acting like a fool. I get a bit friendlier,more talkative, but I dont act like an idiot. Why do some people just lose it when they drink? No offense to anyone here, but has anyone noticed that women tend to get really insane when they drink more so than men. I realise that is broad generalisation and is perhaps only based on my personal experience,but it really seems to be the case. (waiting on the daggers from all the women here )