Congratulations, and good for your both, now contributing to the community and to your new and improved life!
Living well is the best revenge. And I would say, no, I don't want revenge. But living well also shows the JWs that everything they've heard about the outside world being disastrous is just false propaganda. I hope your family members see that.
And again, congratulations on the new job, full life and on the new babies!!!!!