I'm option 3 - a 'Fader'.
I'm in my mid 50's and have no JW friends. My wife started to go back to the meetings from about the beginning of this year however, neither her or I get invited to any gatherings and no JW's come to our home.
Occasionally I might come across JW's in the town. Aside from a brief 'hello' that is as far as it goes.
I have been left alone these past 4 years and I don't go out of my way to give them any excuse to hassle me.
So for now I'm enjoying the status quo.