Kim Silvio says that Lloyd disclosed the information to her without any warning about the nature of the disclosure or request about whether she agreed to receive such personal information.
The information came as a complete shock to Kim Silvio and it took her some time to work out the implications and her own response.
Lloyd did not ask for secrecy before, during, or for some time after the unprompted disclosure. Lloyd himself says he “assumed” it would be kept secret.
It could well have been a tactic - reveal what they were going to find out soon anyway, but try to claim they are then obligated to keep it secret or he can claim that the "reveal" is the true crime (sorry Lloyd, it isn't).
Does Dijana even have her own social accounts or are they all controlled by him? He used to use her account on this forum to post. Perhaps he thought if he could silence the only people who would be able to confirm or deny stories, and control his wife's communication, that he could keep a lid on things?
If he did, he was wrong.