All I hear is “in spite of how badly I have treated her, she continues to allow me to treat her as a door mat”
He does the same in other comments a few pages back, where he talks glowingly if people show "unconditional love" for him. He doesn't want any accountability, he wants submissive fools, never consequences.
For him of course. He must be forgiven all sins. But other people? Even when they haven't done anything, he's all over it like a rash.
And he probably knows all about rashes ...
It's the hypocrisy that makes it worse - if he wasn't such a fault-finding judgemental prick people might extend him the same courtesy. But if you set yourself up as the executioner, you better not be caught doing things that warrant your own head on the block. You may find there is a queue of people willing to pick up the axe.