Lloyds entire situation is a good example of what often happens when someone wakes up that JWs have got a lot wrong, perhaps almost everything wrong. Then what do you believe? If you believe evolution then some go off the rails like Lloyd did as there is no moral compass anymore and this just brings results that Lloyd has - suicidal extreme unhappiness having messed up everything and anyone in your life.
I disagree. His behavior is just who his is - he hasn't really changed from when he was in, he just stopped trying to follow *some* rules although he never really did, and had daddy to run cover for his indiscretions until they became too much to cover up.
I honestly don't believe people change - they are the same people when the leave as they are when they were in. Being an exJW doesn't make you a good person any more than being a JW did.
A lack of belief in god / a belief in evolution certainly doesn't mean you lack a moral compass. Lack of a moral compass is the thing in itself.
Yes that’s my point, leaving the JWs was his downfall with no moral compass anymore. He would have been better off staying JW lite for the stabilising influence
Being a JW didn't change who he was, he just hid who he really was. Now he isn't he puts little effort into hiding his true nature, and even seems to be proud of it - why else tell co-workers?