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  It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars

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  I am quite freaked out in this forum as to how well you all seem to know the "real Lloyd"

  He used this forum to promote his site when he first started. I can't remember if he was already out at that point (heck, I don't really know if he's genuinely "out" even now, LOL) but he gave us all early access to how he worked and what he was like.

  Very stubborn, childish, thin skinned, manipulative, frames criticism as an attack to claim he's the "victim" and generally dismissive of anyone else's opinion, concerns and privacy.

  He seems to generate a constant whirlwind of drama and controversy and I haven't fully made my mind up yet if that is an act to create publicity in order to grow an audience for $$$ or if he's just a dysfunctional character who doesn't know how to act appropriately.

  But safe to say, this is a Lloyd-free zone, and while we don't mind a robust debate on pretty much any topic going as long as it's interesting, we try to keep things friendly and cordial if we can.
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  It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars

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  You are a beautiful woman and if you wanted to go into another relationship with someone else, I guarantee you, you will have no problems whatsoever.

  I know you mean well with that comment, but I would suggest people don't get into relationships with anyone simply based on physical attraction, whether that is because you find someone else attractive or your rely too much on your own looks to attract someone. You should want someone who values you for who you are, who finds you intellectually stimulating and will want to be with you when your looks are something you both remind yourself about with old photos.

  Marrying for looks is a fools game that leaves people with someone who'll forever be looking over your shoulder to see if there is a better deal now available. It's no better than marrying based on someone's "spirituality" - it's not going to create a good marriage. Contrary to JW folk lore, marriage is not a 3 strand cord and if it is, whatever that 3rd cord is, is going to rip it apart. It should be you and them, just 2 people, united.

  I know that sounds ridiculously old fashioned, but IMO it's true and women shouldn't be told that their value comes down to their attractiveness.
  
  
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  It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars

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  I live in China and this is actually something that happens in big cities when people can't afford one. They usually hire foreigners to act (pretend) as lawyers.

  Hmmn, being a grey-haired old white dude is something I excel at and I can even throw in a Downton Abbey accent ... good to know I have options!
  
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  It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars

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  Being isolated without friends or a support network is a huge red flag for someone suffering from controlling behavior. It's what the WTS does to people, but way worse because it's total and complete and on an individual level. Even as a JW you'd at least have some friendly folk you could talk to in the local congregation. Without that you have nothing.

  You don't have to be a super-outgoing party person but everyone should have at least one very good friend that they can confide in, discuss things with, get a 3rd party viewpoint from and rely on for emergency support if needed.

  "I had a friend once but he didn't like her" is such a sad indictment of a relationship. I hope she starts to spread her wings and learns to expand her own social network so he isn't in such complete control of her life. It's not like she is the one in a foreign country so she has that advantage after all.
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  Confirmed, this is Kim ... or someone capable of also hacking Twitter (just want to keep the intrigue going, LOL)
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  It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars

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  It's good to be cautious, especially as there are some idiots who like to play silly games.

  I'll message Kim on Twitter to confirm ...
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  It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars

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  Me too. That thing is never not going to be on the internet somewhere.
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  Let it go NonCoinCollector. We all know the truth about Evans, don't waste your time and energy on him.

  Yeah, it starts to feed into his narrative that he's being harassed. Better to criticize and point out that it's valid, it's true (based on things he published) and that he blocks people for stating these facts.

  The truth is there for people to see. If people don't want to bother and want to piss away their money on some asshole on the internet, that's up to them - they can't complain that the information wasn't out there.
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  is it pImo ?

  by stan livedeath in

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  is it peemee or pie mie ?.

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  Simon

  Well it's not pLmo, which is what it looks like in the topic title. That's the dyslexic Palestinian terrorist group.
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  It's a numbers game.

  His methodology has usually been controversy to raise his profile and expand his audience. Numerous "scandals" such as the fake surveys, pirating Ray Franz book and so on. All were ultimately ways to get free publicity.

  I think the "confession" video may have been a miscalculation. Maybe he thought he'd trade some notoriety for publicity and gain more followers, believing the lie that "there is no such thing as bad publicity" and also his own warped morality that someone claiming to be a CSA advocate being a patron of the sex trade was fine and dandy.

  He was wrong. Most people have morals and see the huge conflict. Most people find it an abhorrent way to treat your wife.

  Now he's trying to scrub it from history but doesn't have any legal basis for doing so, hence the fake threats, and he's trying to rebuild his image with his fake "I'm a caring family-man" posts (which he also used to elicit contributions on Patreon while using it to pay prostitutes).

  He's not fooling anyone but those eager to be duped by him. He's become just like the WTS and made himself financially dependent on them.

  It has been between 2 and 3 months since the confession video. Has Lloyd hired a prostitute lately? Surely he has by now.

  The real question to be asking is "how many" ... back to "it's a numbers game" LOL