The only thing I really really despise, which I've noticed many exJW YouTubers are guilty of, is when they dismiss people who have opinions different to their own as evidence that people "still have a JW mindset".
I saw one the other day, typical leftwing woke virtue signalling, claiming that exJWs who weren't all over gender pronouns haven't "really woken up" from the JW experience yet.
I'm sorry, but no - fuck off cunts! This "you're still a JW if you don't think like me" attitude is so past it's sell-by-date it reeks. If you think you're helping people with that shit, think again - you're simply tickling the ears of a certain crowd to get likes and view, living in a bubble.
You don't have to turn into some drug taking, trans-loving, communist-flag-waving drop-out to 'prove' that you have "really left the WTS". I think the YouTubers actually represent a minority of exJWs as most people are far more likely to have more conservative outlooks. So the YouTubers present a misleading portrayal just because they are the ones most likely to want to live their life in public, and vocally virtue signal and demonstrate their closet intolerance and judgemental attitudes toward those with different opinions.
Leave the WTS. Be whoever you want to be. Don't let anyone tell you it's wrong. That's the message.