TonusOH

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  In the spirit of Christmas

  by no-zombie in

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  a year ago

  on this auspicious day, i'd like to propose a question (half in fun and the other half not) to ask, ... if the governing body reviewed the origins of christmas and now proclaimed that it was now a matter of conscience, how many of the brotherhood would pick it up and start practicing it?.

  for me, i think that very, very few would take issue of the change and disassociate themselves.

  yes, many would question it in their minds for a while but since it would be a governing body sanctioned holiday, i think a very surprising large number would do so with zeal ... particularly in europe, were it still has wholesome family traditions.

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  Jan: Like the GB doesn't really approve.

  That is exactly what they want the rank and file to feel. It's a sort of "you can do that if you feel you need to, but Jehovah would be very proud of you if you didn't" attitude.

  If they did say that Christmas celebrations were a conscience matter, a lot of JWs would still not celebrate it. My mother would not, I am certain of that. She would point to all of the old WTS teachings and lean on those. But overall, I think there would be a gradual shift towards celebrating. The issue for the GB is that it would likely cause rifts in many congregations, and lots of brothers and sisters would feel like they had been betrayed. If there isn't that much to differentiate the WTS from other Christian denominations, why not go to one of the others?

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  Door to Door Witnessing Anxiety

  by NotFormer in

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  a year ago

  it's not only the jws who do door to door witnessing.

  the independent baptists for the most part have "soul winning", mainly door to door witnessing and leaving tracts, as a tennet of their faith.

  this discussion is interesting:.

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  TonusOH a year ago

  In territory that was overworked, there definitely was stress when you went out in field service. You knocked on doors knowing that the people inside knew it was JWs, and knowing that they were probably quite tired of it. You hoped that the worst of it was just people saying "no thanks" and that was it.

  The reporting requirements, and the pressure to post sufficient hours each month, made for a very unpleasant experience for both JWs and households that did not want to be bothered yet again by a knock at the door on a weekend morning. So it was both stressful and unrewarding. I don't recall any particular brothers or sisters who looked forward to it, but I can remember how happy we were when the hour or two was over.

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  It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars (continued)

  by Simon in

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  2 years ago

  uh oh, looks like the mega thread gave up the ghost, so while i investigate / fix it just continue the discussion here .... it's been a long 9 years lloyd evans / john cedars.

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  TonusOH a year ago

  Evans made a video before he entered the JC, explaining that he would not record it because he had nothing to hide, which makes zero sense. "I have nothing to hide" is the explanation you use for recording such a meeting. He claimed that his JC was for apostasy, an outcome that fits much better with his self-image as an exJW activist working to expose the organization. It certainly sounds better than, well...

  In his book, he tells of the time that his wife found his phone with messages showing that he was 'sexting girls online.' He explains that this was not the first time she had discovered him doing so. He has other stories in his books which paint him as something of a perverted creep. One could easily imagine that the judicial committee wanted to learn more about what he would later term his inability to master his penis. Alas, we can't ever know for certain because he refused to record it. But which one sounds more plausible?

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  Where is Tony?

  by Athanasius in

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  a year ago

  on february 22, 2023, anthony morris iii was officially removed from the governing body of jehovah's witnesses.

  a few months later it was revealed that the watchtower bought him a house in lumberton, north carolina.. however, and correct me if i am wrong, since leaving the gb nobody has reported seeing tony attending jw meetings or participating in field service.

  in fact nobody has reported seeing him anywhere, not even at a local liquor store.

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  She is referring to a TikTok video from someone who drives up to what appears to be a KH near where Morris lives now, and accuses Morris of raping her and two other women (when they were children). She also claims her own father was running a sex trafficking ring and that Morris was aware of it. She refers to legal action taking place in California, but provides no specifics for any of the claims she makes, nor does she say whether she is initiating any legal action of her own, or if she is cooperating in any of the actions she refers to.

  She states her name as Salena Vertolomo. A Google search turns up this Reddit thread about Morris:

  https://www.reddit.com/r/exjw/comments/160b4kt/regarding_recent_allegations_against_anthony/

  The thread is around four months old. I am unaware of any action being taken, or of anyone joining her in these accusations. If there is litigation or police action pending, I suppose we will hear of it soon enough. Until then, all there is are claims and speculation.

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  Are Atheists Hypocritical in Celebrating Christmas?

  by Sea Breeze in

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  a year ago

  richard dawkins revealed that he celebrates christmas on radio four's today programme.. here is is quoted as saying: .

  'i am perfectly happy on christmas day to say merry christmas to everybody,' dawkins said.

  'i might sing christmas carols - once i was privileged to be invited to kings college, cambridge, for their christmas carols and loved it.

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  SeaBreeze: They are facts

  No, they are not. They are claims, found in texts whose original writers are unknown and whose reliability is questionable. Who are these scholars who accept unproven claims as fact? If they are "historical facts," where is the consensus among historians? Why don't they accept these "historical facts"?

  Under this approach, every religious claim to be found in their writings are facts that require plausible explanations in order to reject them. Islam? True. Hinduism? True. The Greek pantheon? True. Mormonism? True. Scientology? True! If you can't account for their historical facts, your weekend schedule looks to become quite busy in the future.

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  It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars (continued)

  by Simon in

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  2 years ago

  uh oh, looks like the mega thread gave up the ghost, so while i investigate / fix it just continue the discussion here .... it's been a long 9 years lloyd evans / john cedars.

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  TonusOH a year ago

  He treated a lot of people --especially exJWs-- like shit. He continues to treat many of them like shit.

  If the only things he had done were make good videos and ruined his family life, these topics would be very small and probably forgotten already. But I would question just how much good he has done, considering some of the crap he has tried to pull in the past, and considering the way he treats people who don't worship him.

  It's not the fault of the WTS that he's such a despicable person. That's all on him. If he wants these topics to end, he should go away.

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  Elders get Paid??

  by jwundubbed in

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  a year ago

  i just did a google search to see if i could find out if my old kingdom hall was still there, in the town i grew up in.

  google has generated questions.

  the first question asked how much jehovah's witness elders get paid.

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  There are websites where people can enter basic position and salary info. I doubt that those get vetted in any way, so you can find fake salary info for all kinds of jobs, careers, positions, etc.

  The WTS give a very small stipend to travelling overseers. If they were paying elders $50-90,000 per year, it would be one of the largest religious groups in the country.

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  The elders came calling. 😹

  by MissDaSilva in

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  a year ago

  this afternoon just after lunch.

  i spotted 2 of the nicer elders in the congregation walking up the drive.

  i didn’t answer the door.

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  TonusOH a year ago

  You are free to tell them that you do not wish to sit down and discuss anything with them. That is sufficient for them to make whatever decisions and announcements they feel they need to make. It saves everyone the time and discomfort of having to sit through a shepherding session when you already know the outcome.

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  Leaving update

  by MissDaSilva in

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  a year ago

  just to give you guys an update on mine and my son’s exit from the matrix.

  my son put on his instagram page he was no longer a jw and wished everyone a merry christmas.

  🎄💥😳the blocks/unfollows came thick and fast.

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  I found that most JWs are good people, with the exception that they will judge and shun you if you leave. Is that really worth keeping? One hand on your shoulder, and the other hand grasping the rug that they will pull out from under your feet?

  I don't blame people for fading slowly, it's what I did (though I hardly had any contact with JWs during my fade). But I also commend anyone who rips off the bandaid and gets to see just who their friends really were (hint: it's probably not any JWs).

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  70s Cartoons

  by NotFormer in

  1. jw
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  a year ago

  there're the obvious ones, like the smurfs.

  although why still escapes me.

  was it because of the magic, that they were "magical creatures", that there were wizards, etc?.

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  I remember my mother explaining to other JWs that she had done "research" into the Smurfs and discovered that they were of 'demonic origin' or something like that. My older sister loved the smurfs and had a collection of the little figurines, which she had to throw away once my mother made her 'discovery.' It was like a competition sometimes, to see who could find more demons in their homes so that they could tell everyone how they exorcised them.

  The thing is, my mother was like many parents, who used the TV as a way to keep the kids out of her hair. So we grew up watching everything, including Scooby-Doo and Casper cartoons. As long as we weren't annoying her, there wasn't much we couldn't watch during the early afternoon.

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