Interesting thread.
A couple of years ago I attended an ICSA workshop for cult survivors. There were about 25 people in attendance. They were from a wide variety of cults, some I’d never heard of before.
The workshop facilitator, herself a former member of a psychological cult, asked us if there was anything good or positive about the cult experience.
Almost everyone had something they could say, but we all agreed the net negative effects far outweighed any benefits we got from it.
Here is a short list of positive things I learned from joining the JW cult, being in it for 25 years and then leaving:
- Public Speaking Skills - Learned in the cult. I was the TMS overseer for 14 years. As an elder for two decades I had countless opportunities to speak in front of groups large and small.
- Critical Thinking Ability - Learned when waking up and leaving the cult and honed in the decade since. I am now a high school science teacher with a Master’s in Education.
- The Psychology of Cult Dynamics - Self taught by trying to figure out how the hell I could have been duped and now what do I do to heal and recover from the traumatic experience of losing my family.
The first two items on my list are definitely valuable skills and abilities, but there are many ways they can be learned without joining a cult.
My life would have been just fine—better, no doubt—had I not had to learn the third.