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  I've created a survey

  by pale.emperor in

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  hi guys.

  thanks for taking part in the previous poll i did about disfellowshipping.. i've created a survey here: https://goo.gl/atcm22.

  and the results will be published here: https://goo.gl/qzqzjd.

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  jp1692

  I'll be interested in seeing your surveys after a few more years of university studies!
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  Jehovah's people are not happy people

  by Phoebe in

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  i finally stopped attending the meetings about 4 months go.

  i won't be going back - ever.. but i've decided the best reply to the watchtower is to be happy and i do try to be happy every day even thought i wasted my entire life on this religion.

  i cherish every day, practice mindfulness and do my best to be content with the life i have.. it is only now that i see that most jws i know are deeply unhappy people.

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  jp1692

  Steve2: I saw parts of Morris III's opening address for the current Summer convention. Within minutes, a memory of that depressed old feeling began to hover over me as he lamely enumerated all the disasters in the world and how these are critical times hard to deal with.

  JWs view the world through shit-colored glasses. They only see the bad because they need it to confirm their apocalyptic beliefs and worldview.

  There is abundant evidence that this is, in fact, the best and safest time for most of us to be alive. But JWs only look for bad news to prop up their beliefs.

  It's enough to drive anyone crazy!
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  why jw's commit suicide?

  by notalone in

  1. jw
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  we all know the rate of suicide is high among jw's.

  my question is this- was there some subliminal messages that encourage this.

  i was a born in and my entire life i would have these thoughts that could come out of nowhere,"kill yourself.

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  jp1692

  Ok, so now we have two posters--Notalone and Ruby--asserting completely contradictory information about the suicide rates of JWs in comparison to others, and yet neither of them can or will provide independently verifiable data to back up their assertions:

  • Notalone: We all know the rate of suicide is high among jw's.
  • Ruby: The suicide rate isn't higher among JWs than general populations. In fact it is lower.

  Careful, thoughtful people avoid making unfounded assertions. They also avoid accepting them uncritically and unchallenged.
  

  Demand facts. Ask questions. Think critically.
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  why jw's commit suicide?

  by notalone in

  1. jw
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  we all know the rate of suicide is high among jw's.

  my question is this- was there some subliminal messages that encourage this.

  i was a born in and my entire life i would have these thoughts that could come out of nowhere,"kill yourself.

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  jp1692

  Ruby: the suicide rate isn't higher among JWs than general populations. in fact it is lower.

  How do you know this? What facts do you have to substantiate this claim?

  I looked at the link you provided and I could not find a single, specific reference to Jehovah's Witnesses.

  Please provide evidence and data to back up your claim.

  Thanks,

  JP
  
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  why jw's commit suicide?

  by notalone in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  we all know the rate of suicide is high among jw's.

  my question is this- was there some subliminal messages that encourage this.

  i was a born in and my entire life i would have these thoughts that could come out of nowhere,"kill yourself.

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  jp1692

  Notalone: We all know the rate of suicide is high among jw's.

  This is obviously an important topic. It needs to be addressed and needs to be addressed with some sensitivity. It also needs to be factually accurate. And so I'm going to ask some direct questions:
  

  1. How do "we all know" this?
  2. What data do you have to back it up?
  3. How was it collected and by whom?

  I'm not trying to diminish the seriousness of this topic. Indeed, one suicide is too many to me. But we need to be careful making statements that are not substantiated by facts.

  If you have some, please provide them.

  Steve2 provided a few excellent points for consideration in this regard too.

  Thanks,

  JP
  
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  Do I have to believe in Jesus to be saved?

  by unsure in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  do i have to believe in jesus to be saved?.

  i was raised as a jehovah's witness.

  i was born in.

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  jp1692

  Unsure, I think you're going to need to change your username as you seem less and less unsure of yourself with each successive post!

  PS: I'm glad to know you're not coveting my ox or my donkey!
  
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  A Poll Regarding Shunning

  by pale.emperor in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  i've created a poll here: https://goo.gl/7xburo.

  i'd be interested in seeing the results.. .

  #qp_main1119848 .qp_btna:hover input {background:#00355f!important} #qp_all1119848 {max-width:815px; margin:0 auto;}if watchtower scrapped the shunning policy due to "new light" and your family suddenly agreed to speak to you again would you accept them back?.

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  jp1692

  I voted YES but I have a couple of problems with the question as worded:

  If Watchtower scrapped the shunning policy due to "new light" and your family suddenly agreed to speak to you again would you accept them back?

  First, I couldn't "accept them back" because I have never shunned them. The shunning has always been just one-way.

  So, if my recalcitrant family members that have shunned me suddenly got back in touch I would welcome them. But I would be hesitant. While I wouldn't put any conditions on our relationship, I would be cautious. I would also have no problem letting them know (when appropriate) that I was very hurt by their behavior and that--if they want to become restored to my good graces--they will have to rebuild their trust with me.

  I think it's important to keep in mind that (and without absolving them of responsibility) they are victims too.

  Finally, your question only allows for family members to attempt to reconcile due to a change in WT policy on shunning. Would it be different if our family members decided to reconcile in spite of no such change? I think so.

  Either way, I would want an explanation for their actions then and now, but I wouldn't needlessly expect them to be hoisted with their own petard of guilt and shame as the elders do in requiring excessive shows of sorrow and repentance.
  

  (BTW, I am neither DF'd or DA'd, just inactive, but I am shunned nevertheless due apparently to my lack of attendance at the KH and my insistence upon having a beard and wearing brightly colored socks).
  
  
  
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  Do I have to believe in Jesus to be saved?

  by unsure in

  1. watchtower
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  do i have to believe in jesus to be saved?.

  i was raised as a jehovah's witness.

  i was born in.

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  Unsure: The more I think about it and the more I try to reason on it, the more it all just doesn't make sense.

  That's because it doesn't make sense. You can't make sense out of nonsense no matter how hard you try.

  Unsure: If you are a good person, you should be saved.

  Why?

  And who determines "good"? How "good" do you have to be? How far can you "fall short" and still be "good enough" to saved? What if you lost out on eternal salvation because of that towel you swiped from the hotel? Or the extra penny you got as change and didn't give back to the storekeeper? Or that scrap of paper you inadvertently dropped getting out of your car? Oh the horror!
  

  It's hopeless and you'll never get an answer that is definitive because there isn't one.
  

  And let's not forget my earlier question: Saved from what?

  When I asked you for clarification about that above, you answered: Adamic sin. But it is only the Abrahamic religions that even acknowledge the Genesis story as part of their culture, and not all of them accept it as literal. Do you not see that you are coming at this question from a distinctly Christian point of view? (And a particular "Christian" one at that). This severely limits your ability to see and consider other possible answers.
  

  Unsure: if God is love, salvation shouldn't be conditional based on belief.

  According to who? Your gut. That's what you also wrote in your last post.

  Do you really want to base your most important belief--one that can affect everything about how you live your life now and in anticipation of an afterlife that may or may not come true--on your "gut feeling"? That doesn't seem like a very sound way to make important, life-changing decisions.
  

  What if it's just gas or indigestion?

  What if God isn't love? (Where does THAT idea come from anyway?)

  And what if there isn't any God at all?

  
  
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  Do I have to believe in Jesus to be saved?

  by unsure in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  do i have to believe in jesus to be saved?.

  i was raised as a jehovah's witness.

  i was born in.

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  Unsure: I don't understand the purpose of that last post.

  To acknowledge your response. You often don't respond and when you do I try to acknowledge it.
  

  Unsure: Is there something wrong with listening to both sides?

  Of course not. In fact, there is often more than just two sides to complicated issues. Thinking there is only two sides or viewpoints creates a false dichotomy or dilemma which is a common logical fallacy. The WTBTS loves to present things as if there are only two choices, and of course of the two they present one is obviously false leaving you--the unsuspecting prey--to pick the one they always intended you to pick.

  You walk away thinking you're so smart but you were played. It's Cult 101.

  Life is rarely this or that, black or white (or red or blue), one or the other. There are usually many options, all with various advantages and disadvantages.
  

  Learn to look for more alternatives than the ones presented. Think critically. Ask questions. Be skeptical of easy answers to hard problems.
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  Do I have to believe in Jesus to be saved?

  by unsure in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  do i have to believe in jesus to be saved?.

  i was raised as a jehovah's witness.

  i was born in.

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  jp1692

  Good to know, Unsure, good to know.