That is why i cant blame him for his decision. I am deeply hurt by it but i cant blame him i know he is going to lose more than what i have lost since he has no friends outside the congregation and his family were the first one whi could disown him anytime if he chooses our relationship and thats the least thing i would want him to do. I should have been prepared for the consequences i just didnt expect it to happen too soon. I tried to breakup with him a lot of times but he wouldnt give up on us despite our relationship being hidden. Its painful but the mere fact that i saw him making efforts to see me made me understand how hard it is for him too. I am just so crushed right now because of the fact that no matter what i do being an outsider means nothing do them. They would throw away even their relatives just for their congregation. I feel like theyre worshipping the WT instead of the real god. I just feel bad for both of us as well as people who got shunned because they have nowhere to go and it must really be devastating seeing your loved ones ignore you.
DrunkinLove
JoinedPosts by DrunkinLove
-
24
My JW boyfriend broke up with me
by DrunkinLove ini am so crushed right now.
i have been dating a witness for over a year now.
we love each other so much.
-
-
-
24
My JW boyfriend broke up with me
by DrunkinLove ini am so crushed right now.
i have been dating a witness for over a year now.
we love each other so much.
-
-
DrunkinLove
I am a female and i am not a troll. I wish natan and stan wouldnt experience this pain. And yeah you can call me pathetic if you want. He was a nice guy and even if i am hurt i am still concern by the fact that he might get shunned because he has no life and friends outside the congregation. I feel guilty at the same time because i am the reason his family hates him right now and they even let the elders know. Everything was a big deal and i cant get in touch with him anymore it all happened ao fast and i was not ready
-
24
My JW boyfriend broke up with me
by DrunkinLove ini am so crushed right now.
i have been dating a witness for over a year now.
we love each other so much.
-
-
DrunkinLove
I am so crushed right now. I have been dating a Witness for over a year now. We love each other so much. He was really kind and loving though i have to admit its so painful that our relationship was hidden and everything we do was done in secret. It was so hard because we cant do the normal stuff that normal people do. I am 25 and he is 29 and we were talking about the possibility of the future. I even ended up attending meetings just to understand his beliefs. Everything got messed up when his sister scanned through his phone and found out about us. His family didnt approved of me and will never accept me. His sister even messaged me with hurtful stuff like i am the worst person when i just loved his brother. Now we have no choice but to stop because he is getting disciplined and its just so painful ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜