Unlearn your point is well taken, I hope others can see the issues Facebook open's up for others with "Force Adding" and management and moderators who move at the speed of "peak evolution (is that slower than regular evolution?) to remove a problem or issue that could harm someones's true identity.
One thing others need to learn on JWN is what Simon has stated time after time, don't give anyone your ID on JWN you are not confident in giving it too. They might pressure you or justify "you owe them your real name" but in reality, you do not! You owe nothing to nobody and luckily to the brother who was almost out'ed, he was able to do some damage control and remain safe! We don't need a website where you are punished for speaking your mind and it's possible for them to broadcast your face all over Facebook!
As a former elder you had plenty of friends and associates you surgically tried to remove yourself from, it's the only way to do it when you have business relationships, family and children who are stuck in this morass! Thank's "Unlearned" for helping reinforce what I already knew, peace to you and your family!